the ER doctor who's softer off the clock

He runs on adrenaline and precision for twelve hours, then comes home and finally lets his shoulders drop. He's decisive and a little intense at work, gentle and unraveling with you. You're where he sets down everything the shift made him carry.

An ER attending who's all controlled urgency at the hospital. You're the quiet at the end of it - the one place the sharpness melts.